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I've been asking some of my friends how they keep their sex lives going and I especially liked these two answers.

1.) Friends: I guess this isn't news to anyone who read that New York Times article about how friends keep us healthy, but some of my mommies say that other moms are their livesavers. "I wouldn't still be married if it weren't for my friends," said my friend E. "They get it: the anger at him for feeding the baby a bottle right before I came home to breastfeed, the boredom of the repetitive nature of mothering, the cyberstalking of ex boyfriends who adored me."

I definitely understand this logic: my sex life improves if I feel better about myself, I feel better about myself if I spend time with my friends, therefore my friends improve my sex life. And I have done the ex boyfriend thing too, which I think is pretty harmless. After Vera was born, I spent an entire nap time watching videos on an ex online. I think I just wanted to be in a world away from children and responsibilities, and anything having to do with them.

2.) Sex on the go: One of my mommies isn't feeling it so much herself, "My libido is nowhere to be found!" While she laments this, she doesn't let it stop her from having an intimate life with her partner. They have a regular date night which always includes sex, since they don't wait 'til they get home. "We have sex in restaurant bathrooms all the time. Quick blow jobs. The bathrooms in the Modern, the restaurant at The Museum of Modern Art, are great. We get dressed up, order drinks (it's expensive!) I leave to use the loo, text him that I'm in the sixth stall on the left and he joins me there."

I definitely need to give that one a try.

Sexy Mom blogging for Babeland

I am honored that Babeland invited me to be a part of their Sexy Mom Bloggers again this year. Click here for sexy mom blogs. Trouble is, I don't often feel like a sexy mom. My daughter Vera is 6 months old, my son Felix is 5 and half, and two kids is a lot harder than one. I'm lucky if I get to jack off once a week, let alone make the time to actually have sex with my partner.

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Here's what I had to say last year around this time:
http://christenclifford.com/blog/2008_05_01_archive.html

And this still holds:

Being a sex positive family means:

not shying away from explanations of how babies are made
expressing my affection for my partner in front of my child
trying (!) to kiss my partner before my child when I walk in the door
talking about all the different kinds of families we know ("X has two daddies and Y has two mommies and Z has two mommies and a dad")
answering all questions honestly and with facts
expressing my need for privacy
teaching him about privacy (" Does it feel good when you touch your penis? Great! It's supposed to. I know it feels good, but it's best to do that in your room where you can have some privacy.")

The baby's sleeping now, perhaps I'll grab my Hitachi?

Sex night planner

Babeland just sent me an email about Sexual Spontaneity that included this image from a magnetic game it sells.  Honestly, I don't want this on my fridge because my son could read it, but wow would I LOVE this as an online game!  Or a private Facebook application that I would actually use.  Somebody please make this sex planner into a calendar site that works.

Christen Clifford

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